Secrets Of Marriage

I'm not an expert in such complicated relationship, which is called, "Marriage". 

But, sooner I'll get marry, being Indian, I've to go through Arrange marriage process. Arrange marriage is type of traditional way of getting life partner, basically it involves families and it's typical match making by Family. 

When I started meeting guys for marriage, I felt it is really difficult to decide whether to marry a guy who is complete stranger to me.

Being in Big Joint Family, had a lot of suggestions what to do and what to do not...Eventually, met Guruji during yes+ and heard knowledge about so many things. During sasang, lady asked about secrets of marriage. Guruji explained it with an ease, and I've cleared all those bombarding thoughts within a minute. And, today I want to share that knowledge with you all.

Secrets of marriage has some rules which are,

Wife should never crushed her husband's ego, she should always pamper his ego though he is an idiot in front of entire world. Though practically sometimes it feels difficult to attempt, but when you take help of meditation and accept all the goodness resides him, you'll eventually become calm, cool and confident, it'll certainly helps in happy prosperous marriage.

Now, for husband, never hurt your wife's emotion. Managing emotions can bring you happy and cheerful marriage, if you go against it, you know how disastrous it can be? Ain't you? 

Next thing, never ask for proof of love from your partner. Generally we tend to ask, "Do you love me?" Do you love me when I'll get fat or thin or old?" 

Just stop doing all these things, take it for granted that your partner loves you a lot. In fact you can ask, "Why you love me so much?" And see the magic of unconditional love. Even if spring has died, it will start again.

Last thing, relationship should be like parallel lines, why?? These parallel lines are nothing but husband and wife. Just like these lines, we should have our personal goals and combined goals towards society, family, etc.

Because, giving your partner space, respecting their goals and sharing mutual goals brings them more closer and just like parallel lines move together until infinity. 

Just be cool into meditation and follow the right path, feel the music within yourself, then you'll never have any problem regards those getting ready late, too much of shopping, talking to girls or guys, and so many silly things...

Priya Satpute :D

Jai Gurudev!!